Relationships are about connection. They require thinking of others, reaching out, meeting needs, cheering and encouraging, and celebrating wins and mourning losses. That can seem daunting for many of us busy moms, but the truth is that we all need good, solid relationships to thrive in this life.
Whether you’re trying to stay in touch with old friends, maintain contact with military members, cheer on a loved one in college, or just thinking of a dear one, consider sending a personalized care package their way. Don’t get us wrong – there is more to a relationship than a cute gift in the mail. But, a thoughtful care package says a lot about your love for someone.
If putting together a care package seems overwhelming, we have a few ideas to get your started. Remember, it doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive to show that you care. You don’t have to have special ribbons or tissue paper, and you don’t have to spend lots of money. The best advice when creating a care package is to keep it simple and make it personal.
Care Package Ideas
Here are some basic ideas for common care package items:
- Snacks that won’t melt (if you have a favorite local treat that you love to share with others, include that)
- A gift card (this is especially great for college students)
- A plushie/softie (this is ideal for kids)
- A t-shirt or other clothing item (consider graphics with a local college, team, or business)
- A photo (possibly in a non-breakable frame)
- Something that is a favorite of yours (a book you love, a magnet with a quote you like, a lip gloss you wear a lot)
- A notebook/journal filled with prompts, quotes, or motivational thoughts (this is especially nice if the recipient has been going through a difficult time lately)
- Cozy self-care items like lozenges, candles, loofahs, and bath steamers (this is especially great if this is part of a get-well package)
- A letter or note (this is where you can really express your feelings)
Of course, this list is not exhaustive, but hopefully it’ll get your brainstorming about what your loved one would really enjoy.
Pre-Made Care Packages
Depending on your circumstances, it can be hard to create and ship a care package. There are hundreds of options online for ordering pre-made boxes that will ship directly to the recipient. Many of them are specifically for a niche audience, like writers or foodies. Here are just a few suggestions:
- Hero Care Packages for military members
- Etsy care packages
- Universal Yums food boxes
- KiwiCrate boxes for kids
- Harry & David gift baskets
- 1-800-Flowers arrangements
When to Send
If you aren’t sure whether sending a care package is appropriate, don’t stress. Here are some situations when care packages are absolutely appropriate.
- When a mom has a new baby
- When someone is sick or hurt (especially if he or she has had to go to the hospital)
- When you haven’t seen grandparents or other family members in a while
- When a friend or family member graduates
- When someone is going through a difficult trial
- When someone has bought a house or moved to a new city
- When someone is preparing for final exams, an interview, or something similar
- When you miss your friend who loves far away
- When you have loved ones in the military
Ultimately, don’t overthink doing a nice thing. Sending a thoughtful gift to let someone know you care is always a good thing to do.
Sending Love
Jane Austen once wrote to her sister, “Where shall I begin? Which of all my important nothings shall I tell you first?” And with those words, she captured the beauty, excitement, and sweetness of building relationships through the mail.
Snail mail has been considered old-fashioned for a while now, but there is something fun and uniquely special about sending letters to loved ones. It’s personal and shows someone’s willingness to spend time and effort thinking of you.
Letter-writing really is an art, and that same train of thought applies to care packages – they offer a unique way to maintain friendships, spread joy, and think of others. Enjoy sending love to your dear ones! They are sure to appreciate your kindness towards them!
