You’ve spent years packing superhero lunchboxes, getting kids on the bus, and volunteering for school fundraisers. Now, is it time for you to go back to school?

Many, many, many moms sacrifice their education and careers for more time with young kids. It’s a noble act, and most don’t regret it. Those years are irreplaceable. But, it can be hard for some women to figure out if and when they want to invest more in their own schooling.

That’s the point of this article. Answer the questions below as a sort of audit. Hopefully, by answering honestly, you’ll be able to see what you truly want in regard to education and learn what steps you need to take to make those dreams happen.

Are you ready?

As you ponder a return to school, think about these questions.

1. Do you want to go back to school, or does it feel like something you have to do?
2. Do you need more schooling to progress in your career path?
3. Do you need more schooling to change your career path, if that is what you desire?
4. Do you have any institutions or programs currently in mind?
5. Do you have the financial means to go back to school?
6. Are your children in school all day or do you have accessible childcare options?
7. Are you interested in full-time schooling or part-time?
8. Are you interested in remote or in-person programs?
9. How many months or years are you able to put into your education?
10. Have you discussed your thoughts on education with your spouse and family members?
11. Where do you see yourself after having completed your schooling?
12. Would going back to school make you happy?

How are you feeling as you answer these questions? If you’re excited, start putting together a plan and setting it in motion. If additional education seems unnecessary, pointless, or simply dreadful, maybe consider options for your life.

Next Steps

If you are ready to head back to school but don’t know where to start, follow these next steps.

1. Talk about it. Share your thoughts with your spouse and loved ones who make up your support system. Your progress should not be a point of contention in your family, so having good conversations can make sure everyone is on the same page.
2. Research programs that interest you. Consider your answers to the previous questions to find a program that fits your schedule, timing, interests, and budget.
3. Look at your finances. Make a budget, look into loans, apply for scholarships, and make a savings plan.
4. Get a mentor. Hopefully, your family supports you, but it’s also okay to ask for additional backup! Ask a friend, colleague, or teacher who is in your field, familiar with the program, or who has walked this path before. Their insights can be invaluable.
5. Talk to your kids. Let them know that you value education and hard work, and you are planning some changes to help you in those areas. Discuss with them any alterations to their typical schedules, such as babysitters or daycare. Most importantly, let them know that no matter what you are trying to achieve, you will always be their mom first and foremost.

Progress Comes in Many Forms

If you decide that formal higher education is right for you, get started! You may have to figure out childcare or take some time to save up, but you can start preparing for your future today.

If you decide that more schooling isn’t right for you, at least for right now, that’s also okay. Maybe you want to start a side hustle, spend time creating art or writing, or want to focus on your caregiving duties.

Albert Einstein once said, “Intellectual growth should commence at birth and cease only at death.” Luckily, growth is not found only in the classroom; life provides ample opportunities to learn and grow. Ultimately, remember to invest in yourself, because your own progression, sense of fulfillment, and happiness matter.